Sunday, December 6, 2009

Such a Giver...

I'm a little bothered. I'm not going to put any names out there, I'm just going to vent.

I met a man that said "I let him go because of my mothering nature....I let him go because I did TOO much for him. I cleaned his clothes, I gave him a place to stay, I gave him money. (Mind you, he did not have a job) I took care of him when he was drunk...I was too caring for him...."

So here is my problem with that, THAT'S THE KIND OF SHIT THAT YOU DO FOR SOMEONE YOU'RE WITH! It's not only good times. There are gonna be some bumps in the road where you HAVE to take the reigns if you are gonna offer your life and heart to someone then you give EVERYTHING, you don't present only a little bit or just the pieces that you want, jackass.

This guy was so completely SELFISH. He made it seem like such a burden to be such a fantastic, generous and giving person. What a tool. The minute that you can only think of yourself when you're in a relationship..then you deserve to be alone.

For months and months this guy was SUCH a giver...he wanted to give some ass to someone that WASN'T his boyfriend.

Now...this is bullshit! You don't cheat on your lover. If you are THAT caring for someone then you get the fuck out of the relationship. Don't be a pussy. You could have left whenever you wanted and instead you chose to fuck around on the internet. You are a douche!


I asked, "How can you do that to someone that you love?" He said, "Don't worry about it. Destiny has it's twists and turns"

NO! NO YOU FUCKING MORON!! DESTINY DOES NOT HAVE TWISTS AND TURNS!!! Destiny is a course of events that will EVENTUALLY HAPPEN! You have NO control over destiny It's set in stone, the end result is how it's supposed to be. Don't speak on things that you don't understand! Unless you are trying to say that eventually, you were going to cheat on him.

Allow me a moment to show you how it is properly used "You are destined to be an asshole"

So I guess prophecy fulfilled.

I do not have respect for this person that may have at one point been a friend.


I guess...the missing pieces of WHY you did the things you did to him was filled in by me...so in some ways, his destiny quip is true. I guess, I was here for a reason. He didn't have closure on your relationship...he never knew, but just had a feeling. I had the answers that he needed, only I didn't know that the answers I had were for him...I didn't even know I HAD answers.